How to be successful

author: admin     date: 04 . 20 . 2012     discuss: 0 Comments

The reality or circumstances we experience are the result of our own thoughts. We tend to think that all human beings are experiencing the same reality, but that is a mistake. For example, let’s take the word meditation and ask five people the definition of it. You will soon realize that what you assumed should be the best definition is not true for the rest of the people.

Let’s put it another way. What is success for you? You think of yourself as a successful person or a victim or the circumstances? Ask a prosperous entrepreneur the same two questions.

He would probably tell you that he was not born successful, but he had to learn how to recognize opportunities and become a prosperous entrepreneur along the way; because he believes there are plenty of opportunities in life and you just need to be able to identify them. My question is, are you willing to learn how to create your opportunities or do you want to keep being a victim of life?

The bottom line of this article is that everyone is experiencing what they think reality is. There have to be a shift of consciousness from just reacting to the circumstances that life presents you, to create consciously your own opportunities.

Consider this for a second. You spend most of the time of the day thinking. On the other hand, all of us have the same 24 hours per day. So what makes the difference between people that are successful and people that aren’t?

The answer is that we act according to our interpretation of reality and circumstances. Who is the one interpreting reality? The ego or compulsive thinking. That is also the one that we cannot control anymore. That’s why most people tend to be in the victim stage of consciousness, because they are possessed by the compulsive thinking.

Besides meditation and some other techniques that I suggest here to learn how to overcome negative thinking and emotions, I just wanted to point out that in the end of the day what makes the difference is how we use our thoughts.

So why don’t take control of your thoughts and create the opportunities you really want to experience. Remember, you have always been creating what you experience, probably without being conscious of it. You just need to understand that what you think of yourself now is what you are going to get in the future.

So why don’t you try to change your thoughts from the negativity and victim stage to the creative and successful one. Besides feeling and reacting better to life, you will see how life starts to orchestrate events to get you on the right path towards your goals.

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